Making Sex Last Longer
Premature Ejaculation is a big problem for many men. This condition is also known by the name rapid or early ejaculation, rapid climax and prmature climax. Regardless of the term the problem occurs when a man ejaculates before he wishes to do so. According to research by doctors any climax that occurs within two minutes of penetration is called premature ejaculation. Many men who suffer from this unfortunate condition wish to know how to go about making sex last longer. I hope by reading the rest of this article you will understand how to do that.
One of the biggest issues for men who suffer from premature ejaculation is the fact that they feel ashamed and embarrassed that they are affected by the condition and they can withdraw from having sex with their partner entirely because of it. It can not only effect a relationship sexually but the stress and anxiety that comes from problems in the bedroom can lead to causing issues in other areas of a relationship so its very important for a man to take control of premature ejaculation before it gets out of control.
Many people assume that premature ejaculation is mainly because the body becomes overstimulated during sex or foreplay but the reality is that the excitement of sex and the focus by men on not ejaculating too soon is actually the real cause of premature ejaculation. What you focus on can and does become your reality, so a man who focuses on trying to avoid ejaculating early during sex finds himself doing the exact opposite!
PE in men usually starts at an early age and studies has suggested that its tied in with feelings of guilt during sexual encounters or because fear of been caught by somebody made the man rush through sexual encounters or masturbation. Over time this can teach the brain and the body that it must ejaculate quickly.
There are number of things that can be done to try making sex last longer. You could go see a therapists to try and get rid of the mental blocks that are the root cause of PE. The sex therapists may also prescribe some medications that will help reduce the rate of arousal in a man and allow for longer sex.
There are also herbal remedies such as clove buds. The cloves are added to tea or taken as a tablet, twice per day. There are also clove based ointments that can be applied directly to the penis. A word of caution about herbal treatment such as cloves, one of the side effects is nausea and drowsiness and they should not be consumed if you going to drive.
One of the best ways of making sex last longer is to master the art of breathing during sex and controlling your bodies arousal level. Through the use of good breathing techniques you can slow down your bodies excitement levels and arousal levels to a large degree. Many men try to resist breathing deeply during sex but deep breaths during sex are important and help enhance ejaculatory control. Mastering this one things can have a profound effect on your PE problem.
If you want to learn more about effective breathing techniques and controlling other aspects of your body naturally so you can start making sex last longer then please see the Ejaculation Champion for information.